1. Compare themselves to others
2. Judge themselves
3. Dwell on the past
4. Waste Time Feeling Sorry for themselves
5. Passively Wait Life To Improve
6. Shy Away From Change
7. Avoid (Calculated) Risks
8. View Failure As The End Of The World
9. Live By Other People's Standards
10. Give Away Power
11. Try To Please Everyone
12. Avoid Rejection
13. Demand Perfection Of Themselves
2. Judge themselves
3. Dwell on the past
4. Waste Time Feeling Sorry for themselves
5. Passively Wait Life To Improve
6. Shy Away From Change
7. Avoid (Calculated) Risks
8. View Failure As The End Of The World
9. Live By Other People's Standards
10. Give Away Power
11. Try To Please Everyone
12. Avoid Rejection
13. Demand Perfection Of Themselves